Last night, on the drive home, I listened to the BBC’s
faith-based programme Beyond Belief. In true religious fashion they undertook
an exploration of ‘which made-up belief is best’, as they generally do.
Yesterday it was psychotherapy versus religion. Both begin with presumption of the fundamental fallibility of
humankind – that is a starting point with which it hard to disagree – but both then
proceeded to pretend they have the answers. Religion seeks to make sense of the
universe and psychotherapy makes the universe all about you. Show me anybody
who has been truly cured by either. Both are in the membership-for-life
business, which is ironic as the healed immediately stop taking part in either
treatment.
The one thing we all have in common is that we never
asked to be born. Tall, handsome, athletic and intelligent, or the opposite of
all those things, we are what we are and it is nobody’s job but ours to make
the most of it. The majority – although I believe that majority is more slender
by the year – get that and go on to live the best life they can manage, but there
is a slowly expanding minority seeking reasons why it is up to others to
subsidise and enhance their meagre potential. Of course, a decent society looks
after those who can’t look after themselves; it’s those who won’t, or don’t
that need ‘picturising’.
It can’t be a right to have a living provided for entirely
by the efforts of others, yet still have a vote to decide how our society is ordered,
unless your inability to contribute is actually beyond your control. And it can’t
be right that while the majority pick themselves up after hardship and as the
song has it, dust themselves down and start all over again, those who never
take responsibility just look for another excuse. Obese, sad, drunk, lazy...
none of these conditions are incurable and although you may need some support,
the solution for all of them is within our own hands.
No, you don’t ‘have an addictive personality’. The food
and booze and fags and dope didn’t accidentally trip up and fall into your open
orifices. But how full is western media with this message today: “it’s not your
fault, it’s beyond your control... society is to blame”? Far too many people
expect not just a free ride but to be given a bunk back up whenever they have
fallen off the wagon. Pissed, broke, fat or just plain stupid, the cure for
most ills is abstention, as prescribed by society of old, much as the cure for
therapy is self-awareness and a bit of common sense.
A doctor advises...
Oliver Letwin was not only right about the Bridgwater
Farm riots, he was right about the prospects for underclass as well. One of the
biggest causes of poor people is, of course, poor people and the same applies
to the rich. As it happens the rich tend to reproduce less frequently and so
the balance tips ever in their favour. As if to drive home that point, today is
Fat Cat Tuesday, the day of the year on which the CEOs of FTSE 100 companies
have generally earned as much this year as you will do by the end of next December.
Envy will get you nowhere unless you turn that envy into ambition. And if you haven’t
got it for yourself, think about those kids you have, or are going to have, who
never asked to be born.
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